9/11

Reflecting Back

September 11^th was a defining moment for many people in this country. Those who lived through that experience were changed by it. I still can’t think about that day without getting tears that want to come to the surface. One of the most significant memories that I have from that time is the unity that was felt in this country. It is hard to imagine that unity when I see how divided that we are now. I will never forget going to church the evening after it happened. There were so many people packed in that church that it is hard to imagine. All of the seats were filled, and the aisles were packed. I remember holding hands with complete strangers and praying for this country. I will never forget that. I also remember seeing news stories from around the world of people praying, churches filled, and people comforting each other. It was an extremely sad and terrifying time. Yet, it was also a time of hope. The sacrifices people were willing to make to help each other were amazing. The care that people showed for their fellow human being was inspiring. This country came together regardless of race, religion, or political affiliation. It was a sad but proud moment for America. Sad because of the tragedy, but proud in the aspect of coming together as people. I long for that feeling. I pray every day that we can become united again. I pray that it does not take another 9/11 for that to happen.

 

Sometimes we may feel helpless in this hostile environment that we are currently living in. But I believe one of the ways that we can change this hostility is by choosing to be better as an individual. We can choose to say a kind word instead of an unkind one. We can choose to uplift someone instead of tear them down. We can choose to help someone rather than hurt them. I truly believe that that feeling of unity is not lost. But I also believe that to recapture that feeling starts with each one of us. Choose your words wisely. Even if it something as simple as choosing to leave a positive comment on the internet rather than a negative one. Say “Thank you” to your waitress or waiter rather than complaining that they weren’t fast enough. But most of all, love people. Remember to say, “I love you” to those you care about. Especially because the people who were affected the most by 9/11 would love to have that opportunity to say that to their lost loved ones. We may feel as if we don’t have much power as a single person. But kindness is contagious. And positivity is powerful. Remember that. And when we remember 9/11, remember that we can honor those who were lost by choosing to honor them by spreading love and hope instead of hate and negativity. You have the power to make this world a better place.